I agree with you, i wa son the same server yesterday and to begin with the teams werent really unbalanced, (i was on blue team with the 1 or 2 admins) but then when i captured the flag, i got slain and from then on we werent allowed to capture the flag. i realised that he/they just wanted to stat-pad their K

or whatever so i told them it was lame (ok, ok i must admit i found it fun to begin with, but not being allowed to end the game by capping is really lame).
I dont mind team stacking if the teams are still kept fair but this is too far and i think its gay.